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Friday, October 9, 2020

6-Month Wall



  The year 2020 will go down in history books, and I'm certain all of us will remember it long after the dust from this pandemic settles. A phenomenon known as the 6-month wall occurs in any sustained crisis, that I'm sure many are feeling about now. We've been in this for a little over that time, and I have personally experienced it during rough times in my past. Long deployments, trainings, and even personal events have pushed me against this metaphorical wall.


  During those times, I have felt depressed, anxious, lethargic, and even a loss of creativity. The desire to get away or make it stop can be intense. I have had to power through this 6-month hump to find the other side many times before. I want you all to know that if you're feeling these things, it is perfectly normal. There's nothing wrong with you. Based on personal research and experience, the best way to handle this time period is to know that it is temporary. There is light on the other side. It also helps to look back and see what we've accomplished during those 6 months.


  This pandemic has fundamentally changed the way our society--and even the world--operates, bringing on a "New Normal." We've learned new ways to do grocery shopping, teaching, learning, holding meetings, doing business, and so many other things. Human beings are the most adaptable creatures on Earth. It hasn't been easy, but we've done it. Together we'll have the strength and will to keep going. There is no benefit in ramming against the 6-month wall and trying to knock it down. It will break in its own in time. Instead, find out or remember what lets you relax.


  Everyone has their own way of destressing. For some, it is religion, or reading a book, or spending time with friends and family. I encourage all of you to think about what does it for you, and go out and do so safely. If you enjoy riding a bike--motorized or pedal--or maybe putting on some headphones and jamming out, maybe playing that game on your phone or computer or a board game with your family... Do it. Find some time this week, and re-center yourself. Know that while it may seem dark, and the path unending for now, it IS temporary.


  The news and the media paint a dank picture. That's their job and how they make money. Facebook is rife with stories both true and false. I won't tell you what to believe, but encourage you to do your own research before sharing that post from Uncle Fred. As we head into winter, the days will get shorter, colder, and darker. There are still things that must be done during this time. Work. Teach. Cook. Pay bills. Exercise. Don't expect to suddenly be sparklingly ecstatic because you've read my words. I wish I had that power... But by doing the things that help you find yourself, by meeting obligations, and by being kind to family, friends, and even coworkers, we'll come out the other side of this in better shape than we went in.


  If you've ever listened to the safety briefing before a flight, they tell you to take care of yourself before helping others. The same is true here. Find yourself. Be kind. Know that this will end. Take heart. We have navigated this harrowing global disaster for over 6 months. We have learned, we continue to love, and happiness can be found if we but look for it, even in these rough conditions. If nothing else, this is hard evidence that we have what it takes to grow, persevere, evolve, and make this world a better place.

Wednesday, July 15, 2020

Open Letter to Educators for 2021 School Year

Dear Principal, Educator, or Guardian of Future Learning,

 

I’m certain that you receive multiple complaints, gripes, and other negative messages daily. I will strive to ensure this is not one of them. This COVID-19 pandemic has seen the best, and the worst of humanity come to the fore. Between worrying about how our economy will survive businesses being closed, to listening to news and social media spread conflicting information faster than the disease it’s about, America is at a crossroads for how our future generations will look back upon this time.

As a parent of two boys who are both high-risk, as well as having two high-risk adults living in our home, I worry about how institutions across this great nation will proceed. I understand that we have the choice of keeping our children home and using online tools for their education. If it follows anything similar to how the last school year ended, I fear my children’s success. Individual teachers acted as though their class was the only one, and piled on one to two hours of work each day per class. Even with three adults helping supplement the reading my children did and trying to teach them the subjects that the online tools couldn’t, they struggled. The biggest problem with online tools is that it offers little opportunity for the students to ask for clarification, or to have something rephrased.

I don’t want this to seem like a gripe letter. Some teachers were excellent and contacted their students to work with them via Zoom or other online tools. While this still left a significant burden on parents who continued working, it was much appreciated. One on one training like this isn’t sustainable in most situations, however.

With some parents complaining about forcing their children to comply with state and local mandates to wear masks, it puts everyone who attends the schools in person at risk. Faculty and Staff will be forced to spend much of their time and effort either enforcing the rules instead of educating their pupils, or putting themselves and other students at risk as well as the families of students and teachers. I will gladly fight and argue for people being allowed to make their own choices, except when they are putting others at risk to exercise their freedoms. An adult may drink alcohol to excess, and that is their choice. But the second they get behind a wheel and decide to drive—again, their choice—they put others’ lives at risk, whether they end up in an accident or not. People can choose to wear a mask or not at home, but the second they leave and interact with society, they are putting others at risk. The argument that they are healthy, so why wear a mask, sounds the same as the drunk stating they are good enough to drive. Their judgment is impaired by the aforementioned social media and news spreading conflicting information.

I was raised never to present a problem unless I had a possible solution. Schools can offer their classes virtually. And educator can connect to a Zoom meeting—or whatever means the school district dictates—and students can log in and listen to their teacher. The technology is there that students can ask questions when they need, and teachers can provide instant feedback. This method also allows for a digital process of roll-taking. Chats can be incorporated, allowing for group note-taking, should the teacher allow it. I acknowledge that this will create a little more overhead for teachers, as they schedule their classes. But once set up, it would be little different than how education proceeded for centuries. The teacher stands and instructs, the students take notes, listen, or ask questions as appropriate. Assignments can still be given out via email or your school’s portal and turned in by the same method.

Teachers would still be able to utilize their classrooms for instruction. They would spend the same amount of time in their classrooms as they did before. There would be less trash and mess to clean up at the end of the day. Books could be delivered digitally, cutting back on waste. Even if a child is sick, they would still be able to attend lessons. It would offer more opportunities for children NOT to miss school. This method protects everyone, and no one would have to wear a mask.

I know that this would drastically change our education system. Teachers would have to pay closer attention to whose face is logged in at the other end. Parents will have to keep a closer eye on what their children are doing during school hours to make sure they are where they need to be.

I will admit that there will be difficulties. Despite government efforts, broadband is not available everywhere. Not everyone has a computer or smartphone to connect to classes. These issues are a minority. School districts can work with these families to provide a system for the student if they meet qualifications. If their access to the internet is insufficient, I must ask how they finished the last school year? I do not want to disparage their ability to learn, as a good education is the best hope for everyone’s future. There are programs to get them the internet access they need.

The only hurdle that cannot be overcome with this method is the social engagements and interactions that students enjoy during school. They could interact through the virtual class during appropriate times, but they will miss the physical interactions. My best solution to this is that parents of students that do not have a high-risk person in their home could schedule “play dates.” Those that are high risk will not likely be sending their children out to bring back a disease that, as of this writing, has about a ~4% mortality rate in the nation. While some places boast of a <1% mortality rate, I must ask at what number is any death justified because of the discomfort of wearing a mask?

I ask that you consider the path of teaching via virtual classrooms to ensure that the best education is offered to our children, while simultaneously allowing people not to wear a mask, and keeping our future generations safe.

 

Thank you,

A Concerned Parent